Will your bf, sooner, than later, ask you to marry him? I hear you, on a couple things, wanting to be married and wanting to give birth before 30. (I was 31 when I had my 3rd and last baby--well, not that I couldn't still get pregnant, just the thought of being in the high risk category scares me--gestational diabetes and preeclampsia risks).

Is it, there a moral reason, for not 'doing the deed'? I ask, with an underlying concern, about whether, in marriage, your bf has potential to 'withhold' from you.

Many, women, get 'urges' for babies. I am sure, it's something physiological, I just don't know the full scientific reasoning behind it.