Lonley, I agree, first u should get married. And good for yall for not doing the deed yet. There will be plenty of time for that later. Make super sure this is the guy for you. My H and I were married for 4 years before we had kids. Because we wanted to make sure we were compatible. We were compatible enough to be married, but after you live with someone day in and day out your opinion might change.

God helps instincts take over and I understand that drive to have children. IT is crazy. Sometimes though having dreams of mothering and strong feelings to have a baby are a sign of a deeper issue. Like the need to take care of your self, or a self nurturing type thing. Especially if you are under a great deal of emotional or mental stress.

I had my last child at 34. So you do have a while. Just be sure this is what you want. You know what kind of situation and relationship I am in, and the only thing I regret sometimes is that I ever choose to have children with my Hubby. If your relationship is not stable or there is any kind of abuse, you can walk away form a marriage but a child doesn't get to walk away from a parent child relationship. Everything a child see they think is ok and that is what they grow up to expect in a partner when the marry. It is very complicated. Just saying.

Best of luck with this. I do know how you feel. The urge to procreate and reproduce is tremendous.