I guess that WASN'T the final update!

I had removed him from facebook because really... after being lied to, essentially manipulated, and having someone not even clean up after themselves.... and he never said thank you at all upon leaving.....

So he sent me this message (name's removed):

"Well I see that we aren't friends. Over a sink of dishes, awesome. For your info I did jobhunt but ran into 2 major issues that i talked to you about. If I had a vehicle I would have been able to get a job as I looked and called a number of people and the answer was always no without my own car. I in fact i asked for help with essays and got none. I did spend 2 hours everyday working on my ged book and got a huge amount accomplished.

As for the sink of dishes I said I was sorry and meant it, D contacted me before he picked me up which was 45 mins early which was the time I had planned on doing dishes. I had to double check my packing and make sure things fit as there wasn't room for error, had I known you would be that mad about dishes I would've told him no, maybe if you'd been there my last evening to say goodbye I could have asked, again my bad and I'm sorry.

I will point out that the night you got over the top drunk and high you and T left a bigger mess everywhere that I cleaned up for you. The food and pan was left out for hours and I got to clean your stove which was coated in dried on crap. To me that seems pretty equal. I also took care of your garbage, litter and vacuuming while I was there and never heard a thank you once. So yes I made one mistake and didnt do the dishes,once, but thanks for making me look, and feel, like a piece of **** on facebook. Stay classy.

Have a good life L, if you ever need anything from me just ask. You may not want my friendship but its there none the less."

1. He cleaned up part of those dishes - I did most of them.
2. The rest of the dishes during his two weeks? Were his - I kept my few dishes in my room as they were relatively clean ones. He might have washed a spoon or two that I'd used.
3. He did not vacuum more than once. My vacuum only lasts maybe 2, 2.5 covers of my flat before it needs charged. I did 1 before he arrived, 1 after he arrived. So he may have gotten part of the floor. It was never charged as the charger is exactly as I'd left it. That one time he did it was maybe a day or two after I had last vacuumed. And anyway, I was not in the living room space so he was only vacuuming up after himself.
4. I don't know how often he changed he kitty litter, but I did change it about a week after he got here and it was full so he obviously hadn't done it before than.
5. Why would I thank someone for cleaning up after themselves? And he did not clean up after himself - there was always a sink full of dishes and they would sit there for days and get a bigger and bigger pile.
6. He forgets to mention that he did not thank me at all for letting him here.
7. He told me about not having his high school only AFTER he arrived - I would have told him that it was going to be useless and not allowed him to come if he had not lied to me about it.
8. As he left almost an hour before planned - of course I wasn't there. I had had plans to be carving pumpkins and WAS planning on getting home for 9pm before he left.
9. Why should it be of any importance to me that he worked on his highschool two hours each day? Only two hours? What did he do with the majority of the rest of the time? It certainly wasn't cleaning up after himself...
10. He asked when he first arrived if I'd help. He never asked me to look over anything for him as he had had nothing ready the day he first asked.

He's now actually blocked.