yes I have, I have let him read in the forums and read my threads. I also suggested he sit beside of me one night and see just what happens in chat. Several people were very nice to him and told him hi and welcome. I told everyone he was setting with me and doing chat with me. One of the sites I use is for survivors of rape and was suggested to me by my T, so I would not think it would be an issue.

I can understand kinda how if he is home and I choose the computer over him it would hurt his feelings. I try very hard to stay off of it when he is home. but when he sin't even here, that is a little to much. I use the computer sometimes to wind down, to conncet, and to deal with the issues I have.