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Old Oct 24, 2013, 04:21 PM
ScrewedUpMe ScrewedUpMe is offline
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Originally Posted by Asiablue View Post
I think when therapists work with someone for a long time and there's an affection and trust there between the two that the boundaries do relax. Is this a deal breaker? Could this just be a lull in your therapy where things are a bit more slow and things will pick up in intensity in their own time, can you still trust and rely on her to help you when it's really needed?
That's interesting...thanks for this Asia. I can absolutely trust her to be there for me when I need her. Maybe you're right and we're just not connecting as we normally do for whatever reason. I have recently changed my meds so could just be my general mood that is changing things. I think you're right that things do become relaxed to some extent and part of me loves that, but part of me wonders if it is real therapy anymore or if I am now too aware of her character and weaknesses to be able to talk freely or react in certain ways.