I would say, go to NH for the day. Let hubby stand up for himself, and you get to give your avoidance problem a kicking and it increases your confidence in yourself. And it is only for one day, right? Sure you can do it! I have every confidence in you.

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RIP Dexter...
<font color=red>The best dog ever!!!</font color=red>

<font color=green>In the real dark night of the soul it is always three o'clock in the morning.</font color=green>
- F. Scott Fitzgerald