Thank you Jan (and everyone). I have talked to some of my friends and one said this happens all the time and my dad was surprised at all! One of my friends told me to "stop a minute and be thankful that it wasn't you who did that." I go for a walk almost daily through the (huge) cemetery and I am always straightening things that have fallen over or a few times I actually stopped and cleaned bird poop off the stones, so I was just not able to imagine taking something. I still think the world should be made of hearts and cotton candy I suppose.