Agreed. I have some issues with how long he wants to computer off and not even when he is not here. That is to much control. So far I told him no, not doing it, and he called me a loser and that I was just giving up because I wouldn't even try. Name calling because you don't get your way is not the right way t handle things. But he didn't yell, or raise his voice. He didn't invade my space and I didn't cry. I felt intimidated but I didn't cower away.

So this is all a huge improvement. Hopefully that is all it took to make him drop the subject. He is at least dropping it for now. Lets hope it stays that way.