I can completely relate my now ex T had horrible listening skills. Even my mother commented on this on one session as she felt meeting my mother would help her know me better. After 5 sessions with her or so I felt we were going no where I knew more about her past and her failures and achievements than how to get through my own struggles.

Thankfully she referred me to a young adult group in which the therapist who facilitates that is amazing and I decided to make her my new therapist. She also even offered to call my now Ex T and let her know about the transfer, such a huge relief.