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Old Oct 24, 2013, 09:29 PM
ultramar ultramar is offline
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Even though he didn't bring it up, I really think it would be a good idea for you to. The e-mail issue has become a part of the therapy whether either of you wants it to or not, and I don't think the issues of feeling too 'needy' or trying to get your needs met through these types of e-mails is going to go away. It's not about 'misbehaving' and possible 'punishment' it's about learning how to get your needs met in ways that will be effective and beneficial to you. I think this would be a good thing to bring up and work on rather than ignoring the elephant in the room.

On the other hand, maybe it will be worked on less directly, in different ways, and there's no need to bring it up. But if e-mail continues to be a problem, I hope you do.