In some ways, yes, I'd like to be more like my T. She has several qualities that I admire and they are things that I wish I was stronger in. Mostly they are healthy behaviors that I want to develop.

But, other things...no. We're different people, with different personalities. I don't have any desire to be "just like her." I'm trying to figure out who I am and emulating her would not be being true to myself.