I think I'd like to steal a few traits from both t's, without losing myself.

Main T-- his ability to transform himself physically, his openness with people, his warmth, his intelligence, his kindness, his calm demeanor---all great things to have

CBT T-- I need a bit of his swagger, confidence, and he just seems to be a happy, uncomplicated guy (but I like being a girl!)

Things I don't want---

Main T-- moodiness/sulkiness, moral superiority, refusal to see anyone as "bad" (i've met enough people to know bad when I see it!)

CBT T- he can be verbally clumsy--I don't think he's stupid by any means, just not as sharp as main T. He can seem shallow/insincere but that may just be me. His laugh is a bit horsey and he can be loud. I'd rather have main T's finesse.