I forgot to posts my text - I'd text him going "You didn't do your dishes?!" whereupon he blamed leaving early as his reason - he'd known for over half an hour that he was leaving half an hour early (based on when he'd told me that he was going early) and who on earth leaves washing dishes until the last ten minutes or so anyway?

And he said sorry in that text response to me asking. But it was like a "I'm sorry I didn't do the dishes, but D picked me up early" - he'd known for over half an hour that he was leaving half an hour early as he'd text me then! And he had ALL DAY LONG to do them... so although it was an apology.. it felt so insincere.

I'm glad that I've been ranting away about him the entire visit though - it's the only thing I have that really "proves" to me that he really HAS been totally inconsiderate and how I know that he did NOT do as much cleaning as he's trying to let on. It's like he's trying to rewrite my experience..... and it makes me feel like an absolutely horrible piece of s***. If it wasn't for the ranting I know I've done, I'd probably believe him.