I know that I am coming in late on this one, but better later than never..... RIGHT?

I have been married for 20 years and sex is very much an important part of our marriage and with me having RA, FIBRO, and Bursitis the overwhelming PAIN that often occurs can put me (and the marriage bed) out of commission for some time to come.

What I have personally found is that it helps to keep the communication line open and always without any misunderstandings, and BTW - both my husband and I have found that slow and easy can be just as good, if not better some times.

Take it slow and always talk to your husband about ALL your concerns, and most of all remember that HE loves YOU and YOU alone... and that by taking care of your self when you are not able to indulge in the most wonderful bonding experience of making love with your husband will do both YOU and HIM good in the long run.

LoVe,
Rhapsody -