I divorced late 30's and I have kids. The kids are what keep me going otherwise I have no use for this life. I don't think I would've realized that though had I not seen how they were impacted by not seeing me for a couple of months. That tore me apart. I love my kids. Other than being a father there is nothing good about me. Luckily the divorce was relatively easy. The only asset we had was a house and that was and still is underwater and we agreed on shared parenting.

I suppose the separation / divorce was hard at first but I now see her for the stupid **** that she is. The less I talk or interact with her the happier I am. I dated after we divorced, but I've now stopped dating. I just don't have the interest in other people or their lives.

I liked dbt group in part because I liked hearing how ****ed up others were. $1200.00 a month seems really expensive. I had group 4 x a month and that cost $200.00.