Rosska's right,you shouldn't worry about your son reading into your social life at such a young age. I have several mental issues myself and worried every day about such things you are worrying about now.Like you said, it's almost like someone read your mind. He's 22 now, and through the years have learned more about each other, and he even gives me pointers on how to behave,usually comedic things, i know it sounds stupid, but it's not, as i try to also point out certain things to him too. Don't worry now, there is still alot of time and in the end you will know you were a good mother because you care so much. Good luck and have a good sleep!!!