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Originally Posted by tigergirl
thanks Sky  i'm so glad you've found that with your T ... and that she is a good listener AND hearer! I've noticed they don't always go together
even with what you shared; the talking little would sometimes make me think that the person on the other end wasn't really listening or that I was boring them and I'd start to worry that I'd done something wrong etc (I get to that point very easily of worrying i've done something wrong) |
I am very sensitive to whether someone is really listening to me or not. I attune naturally (or not). So, I can sense immediately when I've 'lost' someone, especially my T.
One time is session I perceived that my T was not 'there' with me and I accused her of that. She confessed that it was true and we determined that she was matching somehow or another my own presence. I also was not 'there'.
My T absolutely is able to be PRESENT and I feel it. She's very talented in that regard.