I was reading the thread that asked if its possible to be too focused on the T relationship and I got to thinking: is it possible for the T to be too focused on the relationship?

My T brings it up a lot and sometimes it becomes the main focus of the session. He seems to think its important and a big part of therapy....I tend to agree with him but I'm not entirely sure. Can't it just be a distraction from the real reasons I go to T? Does it just depend on the persons goals whether or not the relationship is central?

I have to admit, it scares me a little bit. I'm always worried about boundaries, although my T seems to have no boundary issues. Him telling me how he feels is terrifying.

Any thoughts?