I don't want to be like my T, but this is probably more to do with the fact that my T doesn't self-disclose much. So I don't really know about things he does with his time outside of T. I do feel like we have things in common as far as our personalities go (to some degree lol) and I like those things. He says he cares about me so I guess that counts for something. I think I'm a caring person and if he cares, then that would be something we have in common.