I come across and nerdy and fairly gay. I am gay so it's normal that I come across that way. A lot of it is that I have odd body proportions including an odd shaped head, long arms and legs, big feet and some unattractive features like too much body hair and baldness on the top of my head. With these features, it's no surprise that I am treated as less than human in today's glamour status society. As a child even my mother once told me I was ugly.