HELLO POSSUM!!!!
My mother used to say that there are no strangers, only friends you haven't met yet. She's now in a maximum security twilight home in Australia.”
― Dame Edna Everage haha.
Yeah i did go ( though like i said i was on the verge of not going again) and enjoyed it. It was judgement evening on the monthly competition. I didn't get anywhere of course but then so didn't one picture that i and quite a few others thought would be the winner. Shame this club is on the same night as two other groups that i wouldn't mind joining ( Astronomy and writing). We have a Christmas dinner coming up so that should be good.
AW so sorry that that person was so insenstive and like me you take things to heart. I wish we didn't but we do. Sometimes we can talk too much about ourselves and too negatively ( not saying you did) to strangers just for something to talk about and people don't like that. Some people on here i know, as soon as i start talking to them they are going to be negative. So you learn not to talk to them. So you need ( me too) to balance saying how you feel with asking people about themselves and being generally positive , even if you don't feel positive. That lady was very insensitive but then people can be . You and me need to develop a thicker skin. Easier said than done but don't dwell on it. Move on and maybe next time she might say something nice that will make your day. You never know.