I didn't think about it but Useless Me had the best advise. You have ask yourself how commited is he? I would think it would make a big diference to think of how commited both of you are. Are you having to leave a job for him? Will you be able to find work where you are going? Does he have children and what are there ages. Or do you? Do you own a house? I don't have any solutions just a lot of questions. I would thing very carefully before I gave up everything to move. :good luck: