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Originally Posted by PAYNE1
Hi, cdd05, and welcome to Psych Central! Of course, we can't diagnose here, but to me it sounds like there are some unhealthy factors in your relationship. And there would be a lot of tough matters for you two to deal with in the future if you stick together, as you say.
I am concerned about how cruel she sounds. I don't know if she has BPD, but if not, then it sounds like she might have some emotional issues that really need to be treated. And also, I suggest you talk to a counselor about what is happening with you. Maybe a professional can help you to evaluate this relationship and why you are struggling with letting go. Best wishes!  |
Thank you very much for taking the time to read my post...started to feel like no one cared
I know I shouldn't be dependent on an online forum but it's been really difficult lately since I decided to come see her at where she's staying for med school. I don't know anyone over here and I just needed some form of an outlet so thank you for your response.
At this time, I decided to see her so that we could really try to work out our differences. If not, at least I wanted to be a decent person and we end the relationship face-to-face rather than over the phone.
I'll most definitely be looking for professional help because I want to find happiness again. Thank you again.
