I'm going to try counseling on my own b/c he doesn't think he needs help. He blames me & other people for the drama in his life but it's him. Just the other day, I asked him when he was going to replace my shirt he ripped & pay the parking tkt he got on my car b/c I saw that he bought himself $250 worth of sneakers. He became angry immediately, raised his voice at me, threw a $50 bill at me & said that I'm a gold digger, more concerned with his $ than my own & said I'm a hater & don;t want him to have anything in life. This is a man who I'm in a "partnership" with. I'm paying the car insurance & he drives my car 5 days a week but I'm a gold digger?! He's living in my house that I moved us into without any cost to him but I'm a gold digger.

I've put up with too much & I've asked him to leave by next week. He doesn't have any family up North & his $ is limited but I have an 8 yr old son. He's my priority not this man who doesn't care anything about me. I'm sad about it b/c I do love him but it's one sided. I have to look at what he's doing & not what he says b/c talk is cheap. We moved in July & he hasn't pulled his weight in putting my bed together or helping me around the house. I've come to the conclusion that it's cheaper to keep her b/c he has it good with me. I must be strong & move on b/c he isn't any good for me or my son. I don't want my son to believe that a man should treat his lady & behave the way my bf has.