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Originally Posted by hankster
I know what you're talking about from your other thread, and imo the point is not your sister's beliefs, but how they all betrayed you? Like they expected you to just fall in line without even telling you. I think the boys wanted to trick you and I think they are tricking her. Your sister may be too young or naive to speak up for herself. Your t is assuming a maturity and choice that isnt there. Imo.
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Maybe, I really don't know how to view it. Basically, for anyone curious, my sister just got married and I found out at the wedding that she has been in an open relationship for years. I have looked up to her and looked on her relationship with pride- it seemed so healthy compared to my parent's relationship. My brother-in-law secretly dropped this bomb, and I've been very upset and angry with my sister (maybe because my idealization of them as the perfect couple has shattered). I've been judgmental about the whole open relationship concept.
My T was presenting the other side of it and seemed very accepting of my sister's choices. So I feel afraid my anger wasn't justified and I'm embarrassed for showing my T those emotions.