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Oct 25, 2013, 11:07 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2013
Posts: 27
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Hi Gary.
He isn't going to show me b/c it isn't in him. I try to give him chances but he fails them. he does the minimun to get him through but he never does the maximum to make me feel like I'm important & to show he cares. He buys groceries for himself, not for the house, he takes care of his needs not my son's or mine, he drives my deceased father's car that I inheritied 5 days a week to work but doesn't offer to pay car insurance, he ripped my shirt in a fight 2 months ago, promised to replace it but when he gets paid, he doesn't offer anything. I watched him buy $250 in sneakers last weekend & buy a $12 pack of cigarettes every day but he doesn't offer to replace my $25 shirt.
This man doesn't care about me. I've sacrificed, saved & moved us into an apt in July without asking him for any $ b/c he wasn't making much at the time. It's going on 4 months & he hasn't even put my bed together! My 8yr old son & I put the apt together. My bf is a user. I've asked him to leave by next week. He doesn't know anyone up North & he will be homeless for awhile but I can't be his doormat anymore. It sickens me to wake up everyday to a man who has thrown his infedelities in my face & who shows he doesn't care anything about me. He should be giving & showing more than what he's doing if he loved me. I guess he doesn't. I'm ok if he doesn't but I don't want him in my house or my life wasting my time.
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Originally Posted by easygoing54
Hi SirGoliath and welcome to PC. I am sorry to hear about how things in your relationship are going he needs to show you more about how much he cares. That was really wrong what he did after your argument...Gary
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