I've given him so many chances. I've asked myself if I'm expecting too much from him? Why am I so disappointed by him all the time? Maybe he isn't capable of giving me what I need in a relationship. He's hurt me a lot but I'm sure I've hurt him too. I didn't throw other men in his face b/c I didn't seek other men.
He does the minimum in our relationship. If it doesn't serve him, he doesn't get involved. We were at the grocery store a month ago & I was buying the groceries. My 8 yr old son wanted to help put the food on the belt & my bf became inpatient, said this was too dramatic for him b/c he wanted to get it done quickly & he walked out of the store, leaving my son & I alone at the store. We went home & he came home hrs later. I was shaken & hurt. I tried to let him see my side of things but he thinks it was my son's & my fault for not letting him put the food on the belt.

Even when we aren't arguing & getting along I feel unsettled & like something is missing. My mind regresses to when he said he "f'ed" other women & reetract my heart. It's a yo-yo & not fair to me or him! He hasn't even put my bed together & we moved into the house 4 months ago. I don't think he cares about us at all. There's so much that I don't ave the time to tell but he feels as though I wasn't fair to him. I've tried to be understanding & cater to his needs but I'm now thinking his blaming me is to gain sympathy from me & to make me more vulnerable to him so that I can bend in any direction he wants me to. Is it manipulation? I don't know him anymore.