My t does take calls sometimes. But he will say at the beginning of the session that he is expecting it. It's pretty rare. Plus, I'm the fidgeter, not t. He seems to have incredible self-control. I'm a pen-clicker, which may be why I'm on the side of the fidgeter. I had my phone out yesterday (I was showing him pictures of my drawers - with the new pulls i installed, not THOSE drawers!) and when we went to get up, t dashed to pick it out of my lap before it fell down, whereas I had forgotten all about it. I wonder if it had been distracting him all session?? That would be justice, wouldn't it? I was just surprised that I didnt flinch as he grabbed for my crotch - that is trust! Or narcolepsy.