Well, this isnt the first time you and this t have crossed swords, so to speak. You felt she overstepped her bounds at the beginning, by googling you. So maybe that was a sign she wasnt as accepting or able to handle things. I'm sorry things ended so abruptly. I know it's soon, but I would try not to dwell. Just see it as her personal or even professional limitation, and figure out how to avoid it in the future. A referral from her might not even help - birds of a feather, you know.