Exellent Perna. You are so right. I am a total wimp and he definetly knows that. A few months ago I was going through major crisis' and he was going out of town for several days so he gave me his cell phone and told me that if I need to call him that I could use that number. Of course I didn't and he called when he came back to town to see if I was holding up and a few times after that ( I have had severl crisis') I called and left him voicemail on his office phone - they were definetly emergencies though and he called me back. I think I am starting to muster up some courage. Thank you so much Perna!!