Hello, I'm going through a similar issue with my fiancé. He likes porn and a month ago I found out that he cheated on me with probably a woman he met online. Now I'm feeling as if I'm not good enough sexually or attractive in his eyes and he keeps telling me that's not the case. But he's not understanding how this has damaged me on so many levels. Trust and honesty are major parst of a relationship and once it's broken it will take a long time to repair. And if both parties aren't willing to do their part with working to rebuild it will nearly impossible to do so. For the person that was hurt they will have to go through stages of letting go of it. First is FORGIVENESS, she has to forgive you in order to obtain peace within herself to start working on the trust. You will have to endure quit a few things if you want your marriage to work. I suggest you start by show her daily how much do love and want to be with her, ACTIOS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS!! I just wish someone would talk with my fiancé to give him some advice because he needs it. If not I will have to get out of this relationship.