Thanks for responding. There is one other thing that has come from this last session. There is an on going discussion about who should be out and in the world. He seems to think that maybe he should be the one that people meet. I don't have a good reason for him to not be that person. I do think his aggressiveness will make life more difficult for us and others will have to than do damage control. Most of us like to go unnoticed. He would bring too much negative attention and some of my friends would not understand why we were different. But I can't seem to have a solid argument for him not being the one people meet. I am not sure how far he wants to go with this. I will ask my t. Thanks again.