I am posting this to say: I have a feeling I will not be able to help with my brothers behavior. I feel as though by me confronting or saying anything that it doesn't go through his head. I didn't think about it this way. I just need to move out is the answer, which is a number one priority to get my own life back on track.

All that goes through his head is drama. I need to disengage anytime that he throws a fit or speak softly saying: "I see that you are angry." Then just walk away. Or "I don't agree" and give one sentence reason if it is something that isn't true. Just one sentence phrases each time and walk away. Because I will only harm myself by continuing to try to discuss.

By reading this article it made me think more logically into behavior and feelings:
How to Switch Off an Angry Person | World of Psychology