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Originally Posted by healingme4me
I'd ask your mom, to ask him for you, at this rate. It's her household to run. If he's not going to be an active participant, as an adult, living at home, then it's up to both your parents, actually, to have a talk with him...
Not sure, there really is a diplomatic way, to ask your brother, to help you out, putting away the groceries. You aren't mutually sharing living quarters, you are both under the same roof, by virtue of sharing the same parents.
At least, you will be equipped, to handle, living on your own, when that time comes.
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Yes, I do agree on that one. My parents are more authority in this situation and others due to the fact they own this house. I see whoever owns the property and is paying the bills they have more of a right to ask for help.
What will help is what I had last posted. I will also say other things like: "I don't like this yelling." Then walk away. Just say things that are discomforting that he is causing; softly though. Not firm!