Good point, mkac. Because stability would be more of an issue for some people, and flexibility, while an ideal for me, turned out to be problematic. (Altho we now have both.) But I couldn't even recognize that I was lacking stability, that everything was chaos, until a couple of years into taking the bus - I.e., taking the bus to t! - I realized the bus schedules didn't change. I found that comforting. As I said so to t, he gave me a look like, and what am I, chopped liver?? So - when stopdog says she doesn't understand how t works - but you don't keep a regular schedule, isn't that like complaining that a recipe didnt turn out right when you didnt follow it exactly? Given that regular attendance is part of the "recipe" of therapy. I better go do something that's part of my dang recipe.