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Originally Posted by atomicc
This relationship is by far my most healthy. My previous boyfriends were emotionally abusive. I have hurt my current boyfriend and he has hurt me. We have been spiteful and lied and cheated. I am past that now and hope he is too. In terms of healthy, if he is still lying and hurting me...I would stay. I don't believe I deserve much more. I love him and he puts up with my emotional instability..that's worth a lot.
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I understand how oyu feel in regards to that you feel like you don't deserve much better. I know a lot of men would run screaming from me because of my BPD.
Everyone is different, I can't tolerate cheating. but I've tolerated him pushing, grabbing, and slapping me cuz I figure who else is really gonna care about and be able to put up with me?
If you don't mind me asking, how old are you? and how long ago were you Dx. Also, how long have you been in this relationship