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Originally Posted by atomicc
Yeah, I'm exactly like that. I have had it under control for a long time but with the loss of my best friend issues I thought conquered are coming back. I do have a dbt workbook and my therapist and I are working on it. I really am trying. I know it'll always be part of my personality but I have gotten so much better. I'm just in a rut this minute. My.Zoloft helps. right now I'm in my "**** him, he's horrible and I can be just fine. I'm not giving him any satisfaction" mood. I'll be very distant today. Then I'll probably cry.
He's used to this. It's three years next month.
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I can tell you that the fact that he did lie/cheat really doesn't help the progress you're trying to make.
I say this because my ex-husband never cheated that I know of, but I always thought he did. So even when the fear is unfounded it can be hard. Much more when the fear is somewhat founded I'd imagine.