Fuzzybear, I am so sorry that you are hurting. I hibernate, too. Have been hibernating for about 3 years now.

You are indeed legendary. I can't begin to put in words how warm it makes me feel when I see your posts, and your fuzzy bear icons, and dancing hearts and hugs. To me, you are someone who has projected warmth and strength ever since I started coming here in 2004.

A loving warmth flows off of you. Whatever hurts you suffered and continue to suffer, your big heart offers so much comfort to others of us who visit here and look forward to seeing your posts. I'm sorry I can't do more to put into words how much your presence means to me and many others who visit the PsychCentral community, I'm sure.