Hi Danny - you sound like you want things to improve, and you're finding positive things about this relationship, and you're feeling in love too. But she's being so nasty, and saying that she'll leave you. This would be hurtful and confusing. Does she realize how hurt you feel? Some people who behave in this way - they lash out at the people who care about them, and maybe they actually care a lot too - but they aren't communicating appropriately, and then they hurt the ones around them. Is it possible for both of you to go to a counsellor or therapist for relationship counselling, so that you both can explain what's going on, and work on what you both would like to happen (in the present and in the future), and maybe work on ways to make some changes that would result in two happier people? I'm sure that it isn't very nice to be treated in such a nasty manner. Maybe she doesn't realize how nasty she is?