S4, you are s right. I don't post much anymore because I kinda feel like if you aren't going t do anything to change the situation you loose the right to complain. That is kinda where I am stuck at.

I agree we should or could turn off electronic devices a few days a week or a whole week with proper time given t let folks know how to get in touch with me. Music lessons, basket ball, home school, and church they all send updates via e-mail. To just say no , n more computer for a month would be like saying "Ok I won't go to the mail box for a month." Thats just stupid. It has not come up again. I hope it doesn't, but I am afraid it will.

I just don't know what to do. of I do knw what to do, I just don;t know what keeps me from doing it.

S4 You are a good friend and I appreciate your input. Thanks so much.