The guy is a jerk and sounds dangerously close to being a sexual deviant. There are decent men out there. You do not have to put up with that crap. When I was in my late teens, I thought I had to put up with masculine vulgarity or the boys would not pay attention to me. Boy was I ever wrong. I ended up getting pregnant to a creep to took a hike when he found out and left me high and dry. Even though I had a miscarriage a few weeks later, I can imagine what a mess I could have been in. Stick tom your guns. ANy guy who deserves to be with you needs to act respectful of your feminity