dedicated, first off he is old enough to take care of himself and is telling you this, second, your children need you to focus on them right now, third, it is always the wife that finds herself coming in third when you should be first, without you who would your children have, so focus on you and the children, he will realize you are looking out for his family and get the treatment he needs
Dearheart, have been married 31 years hubby is OCD, Panic/Anxiety, and Depression, while we are Bi-Polar, DID, and Depression, it's been tough at times but worth it, hang in there
Angie