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Disordiano said:
Also, how does a psych telling me what to do make me do what she tells me to do?

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Dis, my therapist never tells me what to do. Maybe that was part of the problem with yours? He sometimes suggests books to read and tells me why he thinks I will find them helpful. Or he gives examples of how others have dealt with problems similar to mine. Or sometimes he makes indirect comments and I am atuned enough to him that I can "get his message." And other times, he says things that plant seeds in my brain but he doesn't dwell on them. It's up to me to help them sprout.

sunny