Twelve, do not let others ruin precious moments for you. Real or not real. How do you know that the people ruining these moments are not just trying to burst your bubble. Some people can never be happy for others no matter what.
As far as trusting others, just be careful with your heart. Before giving of yourself to much let time show you what they are all about. Always and I mean always go with the old saying that actions speak louder then words, cause it is always true! People can say anything you want to hear, but the way they treat you, the way they act is the only truth you can believe.