For some reason when I watch BDSM porn online and see this so called humiliation I get aroused yet no matter what humiliating act I see I still feel like nothing could be more humiliating then telling my girlfriend I like bondage. I mean when I think about it I think I'd rather be flogged and beaten in public than tell the girl I love I want to treated like a dog and also dominate her from time to time.

I think whether you are top or a bottom it can be the most humiliating thing to tell someone your most intimate desires. That being said I'm curious how do you tell someone your kinky?