*sigh*, why is it, that the doctor/patient relationship, is seen as one of authoritarian over the patient? Took me, many years, to see them, as not having that position of power, over me. As human beings, worthy of being peers, just with different occupations/specialties/skillsets.

Once, I did that, I was able to become more assertive. For instance, with my neurologist. Sorry, doctor, I am just not going to take the meds that you have to offer. Their rebound effects are worse than where I am now, which isn't too bad off.

One expression you can use, 'Doctor, don't dismiss my pain, and chalk it up to walking 12 miles a day. I've had this pain, most of my life. I'd rather find out, what I have, than change my job. Is it arthritis, doctor? Tendonitis, doctor? Is there something wrong with my back, that I have this pain? What is it, doctor? That's why I am here!"