(((((Maggy)))))

I understand what you are saying about wanting someone to mother you, honest I do. Unfortunately, that's not the role of your T. Your T is there to help you work through and process those feelings, but not to be your mother. Have you talked to her about how you feel? That can be very therapeutic. If you have, and nothing seems to have resolved, it might be worth looking for another T. I know that might be hard to hear, but if your feelings toward your current T are holding you back from working on things, then it indeed might not be very helpful.

Hugs,
Jacq