Stringcheese... is this T in a solo practice?

My T said the only reason he would terminate with me is if he felt physically threatened. Is it possible that your reaction to the flashback caused you to act in a way that caused your T to feel physically threatened? It might be the reason that she is only willing to talk to you on the phone. I'm not saying this to mean you are responsible...because I think a T should be able to tell difference between flashback and current behavior? Just providing a possible reason for her actions...

If she was in practice with another person, perhaps she would be willing to meet face to face if she had another T in the room with her. Although I think you would get more honest answers on the phone with her alone.

personally I would wait until I had another T set up and I would have prepared questions and I would record the conversation in case I couldn't remember what was said.