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Old Oct 28, 2013, 11:24 AM
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Originally Posted by Readytostop View Post
Stringcheese... is this T in a solo practice?

My T said the only reason he would terminate with me is if he felt physically threatened. Is it possible that your reaction to the flashback caused you to act in a way that caused your T to feel physically threatened? It might be the reason that she is only willing to talk to you on the phone. I'm not saying this to mean you are responsible...because I think a T should be able to tell difference between flashback and current behavior? Just providing a possible reason for her actions...

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first, T is an MD in solo practice

i dont know how T could feel threatened. i was sitting in my chair and was closed trying to protect myself. i think i moved when she came near me. T said i asked T to stay away a couple times, was confused and ran out.

But, you are right... T's response implies that she was frightened by me... although in all the sessions and months, I have never been threatning, hostile, etc.

when T terminated me, T acted like she was aware it was a "dissociative state" but was not really sure what was going on.

it makes me feel worse, because i am actually a very gentle person. and now i am being treated like a "danger" because of what happened.
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