Also I forgot to add this- so we had sex twice and after he kept telling me how amazing and beautiful I was and how perfect this is and that it might be fate, that he loves being around me, he wants to be there for me and protect me but not control me, crap like that. I find that incredibly off putting another red flag. I don't believe what he's saying for one thing. He's laying it on way too thick and it's obvious. Also normal people don't feel the need to tell each other how normal (in this case not controlling) they are and he said things like this to me without prompting. I assume this was because my other friend had told him I was leaving an abusive relationship but I had not told him anything about it so it seemed strange. And even if he was being sincere that's still off putting. I don't want a relationship right now and he knows this. He barely knows me too so I feel like telling me all these things about how much he likes me is creepy and I don't like it. The second time we had sex he told me he wanted to do this every night and he wanted to sleep over and hang out the next day too and it was way too much for me and I felt pushed. I lied and said I had homework and he needed to leave and he left.
I sort of wish my friend hadn't told me all this bad stuff about him because we do have a lot in common and I have fun hanging out with him and the sex was good. It's only post sex that he gets weird and I wouldn't like that even if I didn't know about his past behavior.